1. How Would You Rate Your Listening Skills?
On a scale of 1 to 10, how effective do you think you are at actively listening to your clients?
- Your Rating: (1 = Needs Improvement, 10 = Excellent)
2. What Do You Feel When You’re Listening to Clients?
Describe any thoughts, distractions, or habits that come up when you’re supposed to be listening to a client.
- Your Answer:
3. Identify a Recent Time You Actively Listened to a Client
Think of a specific instance when you gave full attention to a client’s words. How did it affect the conversation?
- Example:
1. What Are Three Common Distractions During Client Conversations?
List some common distractions or habits that take your focus away from truly listening.
- Distraction #1:
- Distraction #2:
- Distraction #3:
2. Which Active Listening Techniques Can You Practise More?
Check the techniques you’d like to improve:
- [ ] Minimising distractions
- [ ] Paraphrasing what clients say to confirm understanding
- [ ] Maintaining eye contact (or similar focus cues in virtual meetings)
- [ ] Asking follow-up questions to clarify
- [ ] Showing empathy by validating their concerns
1. Set One Specific Listening Goal for Your Next Client Meeting
Write a goal for your next conversation, like “I will let the client finish their thoughts before responding” or “I will ask one clarifying question per meeting.”
- Your Goal:
2. What Will You Do to Reduce Distractions?
List one or two ways to minimise distractions (e.g., putting away your phone, closing irrelevant tabs, or taking notes by hand).
- Strategy #1:
- Strategy #2:
3. Choose a Follow-Up Question to Show Interest
Plan one follow-up question you can use to show clients you’re truly listening, like “Can you tell me more about that?”
- Follow-Up Question:
1. What Do You Hope to Gain by Listening More to Clients?
Write down what positive outcomes you anticipate by becoming a better listener. This could include trust, clearer understanding, or stronger relationships.
- Your Answer:
Think about a time when someone really listened to you. How did that make you feel? How can you create a similar experience for your clients?